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Tuesday, April 1, 2008

Parenting Tips: How To Find A Sitter

You may be both working parents and are out of the house for more than eight hours a day. You may also simply be considering having a couple's night out. In both cases, you may need to leave the kids with someone trustworthy.

By Rashel Dan

You may be both working parents and are out of the house for more than eight hours a day. You may also simply be considering having a couple’s night out. In both cases, you may need to leave the kids with someone trustworthy.

Of course, you’d want to work efficiently or have a night of pure unadulterated fun without having to constantly worry about what’s going on at home. The usual way to go is to get a sitter. The process of getting a sitter however probably is not that simple.  What do parents have take note of when picking a sitter?

Start as Soon as Possible

If you have plans of going out, find a sitter as early as possible. This means planning all your night outs, breaks, work commitments ahead of time. This is to ensure that when you decide to study your sitter options, you have more time to study qualifications and be discriminating.

Study All Your Options

Needless to say, you would want a sitter that can be entrusted with your kids’ safety. A relevant tip therefore is to look at all your options. You can look for sitting services in the paper. Just make sure that the services you choose are ones which conduct some form of background check on their sitters. Another good parenting tip on this aspect is to advertise with your local community organizations or groups. One of the best thing to do however is to ask close relatives and friends to recommend some good sitters.

Ask For a Lot of Things

Don’t be afraid to ask the right questions. Many highly recommend asking for references and actually checking and calling on those references. You should also consider a lot of questions during your interview with potential sitters.

Ask about length of experience as a sitter, ages of kids looked after, training in CPR or other relevant training.  Make sure the applicant sitters know what they should do during emergency situations like the child choking or falling down the stairs.

Take the Time to Observe

If you have your pick already, take the time to observe how the sitter interacts with the kids. One parenting tip is to see if the sitter seems naturally comfortable with the kids and vice versa. Another thing to do for additional safety is to install nanny cameras.

Ask the Kids

Always talk to your kids about their experience with their baby sitter. You can ask them to describe what they did that day, if they enjoyed being with their sitter, what new things their sitter taught them and what other things their sitter has been doing. Be sensitive to such warning signs as discomfort among your kids when you ask them sitter related questions and bumps and bruises in inconspicuous parts of your child’s body.

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